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Create a Life Plan Based On Past Experiences

February 13, 2016 by Kathy Zucker

Create a Life Plan Based On Past Experiences

I want to be Emily when I grow up, the ‪‎toddler‬ says. She is holding a ‎toy‬ cellphone. A waist pouch containing lip gloss and ‪money‬. When she saw me giving her big ‪sister‬ a cellphone, she ran and got her toy. Will it fit in my pouch? she asks. Yes. I give her one of my ‪business‬ cards to keep with the phone. There. Now you have a waist pouch exactly like the one your sister wears when we go out on ‎adventures‬.

Having a ‪baby‬ who can keep up with the rest of the ‎family‬ is a huge part of why I have been able to accelerate my ‪career‬ while my ‎children‬ are young. When my ‪husband‬ and I discussed having a third ‪child‬, we held our breath. Would it be a ‪girl‬ who would sleep through the night at a young age like her sister? Or a ‪‎boy‬ who never slept? We would ‪love‬ a third child no matter what gender, but having a girl would be easier.

And at the twelve-week ‪pregnancy‬ ultrasound? We found out we were having a second ‪daughter‬. Who began sleeping through the night almost immediately after she was born.

Parenthood has taught me to expect nothing but be ready for anything. From time management to food shopping, every day is full of surprises. The first six years were an absolute nightmare. And I have bad days even now, nine years into parenting. But something happened when I hit the six year mark. Instead of being felled by surprises, I began to incorporate them into my routine. Kid refusing to go to school? Okay, sleep in while I work at the laptop a few feet away. It is actually easier to work when my toddler stays home since I do not have to deal with disruptions to drop her off and pick her up. I can stay in pajamas and feed her at intervals. Cook together. Work while she plays and naps.

Most expertise takes six years of constant work to develop. If you can survive the first six years of hands-on parenting, you may find that you have made an investment that lasts a lifetime.


Kathy Zucker is an international social media Shorty Award winner, mother of three and a startup founder at companies including the Metro Moms Network®.

Filed Under: Speak Up, Uncategorized Tagged With: adventuretime, entrepreneur, momlife

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Kathy Zucker is an international social media Shorty Award winner, author, speaker, mom of three and startup founder of the Metro Moms Network® and other companies. She lives in the NYC area, and when she isn't working she enjoys sword fights with her husband and three children.

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